Why do some people stay in a bad relationship? It’s pretty easy to state out why people engage in such relationship There are tremendous different reasons why this happen. See below!
Main reasons :
FINANCIAL REASONS
Sometimes some people stay in a bad relationship in other not to loose some kind of financial benefits, they really think breaking up with their partner would make them lose that rare opportunity, in most cases its real and actually happens,but not everyone is like that.
I think whatever you lost you can regain in time,But the longer time continues. The more assets they have to get from you when the bad relationship ends. So to me, it make no sense. Money can’t buy happiness of freedom to pursue it.
FEAR
Fear another reason people stay in bad relationships. Some people fear they will never find someone and will be all alone. A bad relationship is no picnic, and you have almost no control over whether you will have a good day or a bad day when your significant other can make it go either way.
Wouldn’t peace in your life and household be better than the chaos being with the wrong person brings to your life? What do you believe is so wrong with you that you couldn’t possibly find someone better than the person you are with? Isn’t it worth the risk?
Think of all you can gain. And, let’s face it, being in a bad relationship makes you feel lonely a lot of the time, and you can’t really count on them to be there for you anyway, can you?
YOU BEING THE BAD EGG
Another reason people stay in bad relationships is because they actually are the reason it is bad. You are only hearing their side of the story, and although you may not want to believe it, they are contributing to the “bad”. Some people actually do not want a normal, or what most people think are normal, relationships. They like the back and forth, breaking up and getting back together. They get some weird kick out of the drama and chaos.
MINDSET
This may sound surprising, but not all people WANT a good relationship. Seriously, they don’t. That is why people leave a good relationship to go back to an ex that made their lives hell.
This is why they stay and have affairs instead of ending their marriage and pursuing someone else freely. Until they get rid of the issues that caused them to stay and contribute to bad relationships, they won’t have the skills necessary to help create a good one.
So are you really in a bad relationship?? Try do some research and get the reason why you’re in such a relationship, upon doing this discuss with your partner and look for a lasting solution to it.
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