They say one has to fall in love with themselves first, to love themselves unconditionally before someone else tells you they love you, and I agree with that.
Whether you are treating yourself to an expensive holiday, buying yourself costly goodies or carrying c0nd0ms around in your bag, show yourself that you are indeed special, and you appreciate.
Well, women carrying c0nd0ms in their handbags has been a debatable topic since time immemorial, with a lot of myths surrounding it.
Carrying c0nd0ms in your handbag shows you are responsible and care about your health but to some, it’s associated with negative things.
#1:. You are responsible
True be told, c0nd0ms are meant to prevent unwanted pregnancy, protect s éxual partners from HIV-Aids, and other s éxually transmitted diseases (STDs).
Any woman who carries c0nd0ms in her handbag is seen as a smart lady who cares about her health and safety.
You are a slut
This is a common stereotype among African men. Most of them brand women who carry c0nd0ms around as sluts, without knowing they are doing it for their (both of them) safety.
A woman who carries c0nd0ms in her handbag is confident and responsible.
You have trust issues
Most women who carry c0nd0ms around are said to be “suffering” from trust issues, and I think it’s good just for one’s health because once bitten, twice shy.
#4:. Cheap
A woman who carries c0nd0ms in her bag is always seen as a cheap one or a jump-off. One who is ready, willing and able to have s éx anytime, anywhere, with anyone just for pleasure.
The guy will appreciate you for having a spare c0nd0m but will not respect you as a woman but as a cheap whore.
#5:. Whores/Prostitutes
This is a common misconception among men.
Prostitutes carry c0nd0ms in their handbags everywhere they go because s éx is their core business (what they do for a living) and they have to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancy and HIV-Aids/STDs from the random men they bed every day..