Does Size Really Matter
Our curiosity got the better part of us and we decided to do something funny by asking women in Accra the sizes of men they’ve slept with and how it was like, whether it was smaller or bigger and also if the size really mattered.
These were some of the things they revealed to us. Enjoy.
Cecelia (21) – Osu (Accra)
I’m bisexual, but until I was seventeen or eighteen, I thought that I was only interested in girls. When I was 19, I started dating a boy and we slept together five times before my hymen broke. I had just assumed it had busted at some point during all the finger banging, heh. Or that I was one of those women who didn’t have one. His dick was about three inches long and kind of skinny. But I didn’t know any better, I was used to fingers anyway.
Dated another guy much later with a dick thicker around than my wrist, probably 8 inches long. There was no such thing as quickies. He had to romance me if he wanted to put that thing inside me.
Akua (29) – Dome (Accra)
Having been across the penis spectrum, I just want to say that penises are awesome. All shapes and sizes are amazing. The best thing you can do with them, is to make sure they are attached to a great person. There is so much more to sex than size.
Betty (26) – Legon (Accra)
Had both.
Small is great for anal. Also, if they are not too self-conscious about it, regular sex can be great. It has been my experience that men with smaller penises make up for it with knowing what to do with it, and knowing what to do with their hands and mouths too.
Big penises are just as great. If the guy doesn’t just rely on size, and is gentle in the beginning, the sex is awesome.
I personally prefer bigger penises. I really enjoy my vagina feeling “full” during sex and I even enjoy a little bit of pain once I’m turned on enough. I like the soreness I feel for a while after. It reminds me of the sex and I just get turned on all over again.
Naa Kwaley (30) – Achimota (Accra)
Lost my virginity to a guy with a smaller than average penis in girth. It was about 5 inches long but really thin, not exactly sure how thin around, maybe 12 centimeters? (just used my dress measuring tape to estimate) Anyway, he was really over-zealous for me. It was our first time, but he was nearly a porn addict so he wanted to try all this weird shit, like wiggling 3 fingers inside me like an octopus, lifting my legs up, lifting me up in the air, it was awful. I was so self conscious and it only got worse. I felt it, but it didn’t feel good, it felt like it was going in but produced no pleasure for me whatsoever. Then to make it even more awkward, he kept asking me if he was hurting me, like in a dirty talk sort of way, if it was ‘stretching you out’ etc etc. Just so fucking awkward. He was my boyfriend for a couple of years and I wasn’t that into sex until I had someone else.
I then had a boyfriend with a very large penis, really fun to play with and it made me feel like a porn star when I was giving him head but it could be painful at times for both of us. Took us a long time to find condoms that would fit him properly, and he could never enter me completely. We had a healthy sex life but it always took a couple days of recovery for me, which sucked. Luckily I married someone who is the right size for me. When you find the dick size that’s just right, you lock it down, like a horny Goldilocks.
Cindy (28) – Osu (Accra)
My very large penis stories aren’t that interesting. It’s the usual song and dance of “it was uncomfortable, had to start slow, too much bottoming out.” So I guess I’ll tell my small penis story.
I REALLY liked the guy, we’d been on a few very successful dates and I had butterflies when I thought about him. He had unusually colored eyes and intense eyebrows, he was a foreigner. We’d gone into his bedroom and we both knew where this was leading. He took his pants off and there it was, the smallest penis I’ve ever seen in real life. I didn’t get to measure it or anything but if I’m being generous I would guess it was pretty close to 3 1/2 inches, fully erect. I definitely had a moment of pause, I wasn’t expecting this but he didn’t hesitate or apologize or wince about it and that’s what spurred me on, his own confidence.
The sex was awkward. My previous two partners had both had about 8 inches and I had grown used to a different style of fucking. I was trying to bounce around and thrust as I had done with the oversized dicks of my past, but that wasn’t working with only a few inches to stay atop of.
But I learned. The sex got better. I discovered that the rocking, grinding motion I had to adapt to stay penetrated by this smaller penis, led to amazing friction on my clit. No, I couldn’t do aerobic porn star sex moves anymore but this new found closeness, sliding our bodies together, grasping and pressing close, was amazing. I had my first orgasm during intercourse with this man and his small penis.
And he never apologized or flinched. Neither of us ever referred to it as a “small” penis, or otherwise and we both shared many, many orgasms pressed tightly together and I stayed with him for over four years. When it ended, it had nothing to do with his penis. Sadly, we fell out of love. But for awhile I thought that very small penis was going to be the last one I was ever going to be with.
Araba (28) – Abura (Cape Coast)
I dated a guy with a legitimate micro-peen. He was very upfront about it the first time we made it to the “making out” stage. I wasn’t quite to the point where I thought we might be long term, so I have to admit that I may have proceeded more out of curiosity than actual sexual feelings.
During that first bout (there were several, and you’ll understand why in a minute) he was obviously very weary of letting me get near “the area.” He would caress my hand and guide it away any time it got close to the zipper zone. He was so suave about it that it was easily ignored, though. It helped that he was a level 10 kisser and so in-tune with reading my cues.
As things progressed, I found myself fully undressed while he had everything intact (I’m telling you, he was a smooth motherfucker.) I don’t even remember how, but he guided me to the carpet and proceeded to perform acts of god on my lady region. I believe years of not being able to have conventional sex have given him oral superpowers. I had orgasms too numerous to count and I’m convinced I partially blacked out at one point (before this night, I would have seriously called bullshit on that actually being a thing, but goddamn if it isn’t real). Long story short, I never did get to see the goods that first night. I remember feeling a little embarrassed the next morning for the amount of thanks and praise I gave him immediately following the last, exhausting orgasm (I’m talking a good 20 minutes worth of “OMFG, you are the most amazing man on Earth” type thing).
We did attempt penetration on one drunken night, but it just wouldn’t happen. The size was a serious issue, but the bigger problem (no pun intended) was that he just didn’t get conventionally hard. It was maybe…less soft? But definitely not hard. So, it just didn’t happen.
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